Let’s talk about bold, messy, magnetic relationships — the kind you don’t post about, but you can’t stop feeling.
We’ve all had one.
The chemistry is nuclear. The connection? Unmatched.
But the clarity? Cloudy as hell.
And that’s the thing about bold, messy, magnetic relationships — they don’t walk in with neat intentions and clean edges. They crash into your life like a wave, kiss your ego, stroke your soul, and then leave your spirit spinning.
These relationships aren’t always toxic.
Sometimes they’re teachers disguised as lovers.
Other times, they’re a reflection of your own healing still in progress.
And occasionally, they’re simply desire and trauma trying to share a bed.
đź’Ą The Danger and the Draw
Why do we keep circling the same flame even after it burns?
Because the passion is addictive.
Because the validation feels like a hit of dopamine.
Because somewhere inside, we believe healing must come with pain.
But the truth is: chaos is not chemistry.
Familiarity is not fate.
🧠The Soul Check
Here’s how to check yourself mid-entanglement:
- Are you constantly seeking closure you already know won’t come?
- Do you feel more confused than connected?
- Are you attracted to their potential — or their presence?
If it’s always a push-pull, that’s not a partnership.
That’s your nervous system begging for peace.
đź’Ś Hang Out With Me
Tell me your truth.
Have you ever been caught in the kind of bold, messy, magnetic relationship that left you questioning your sanity andyour standards?
Drop your story — or your survival tips — in the comments.
This space is for growth, not guilt.
Kimberly 🖤💛🥂
